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Joede Brown's avatar

The last paragraph resonated with me. I am the one responsible for others and if I need help, as I've needed in the past with my cancer, no one is available. I've fallen into the trap of thinking that having a romantic relationship is a priority and deprioritized having more than one girlfriend relationship. So, here I am, alone for 20 years; my best friend had a stroke so our relationship had shifted and I can't even virtually communicate with anyone anymore. This is an intriguing concept; community in action. I'm jealous.

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Emerald AF's avatar

Joede, first, thanks for being avid in your reading and interaction with my work. I don't take your trust for granted.

It's interesting that we've been told to rely on one person in life. I think the rejection of that notion had sustained me in ways that I never thought.

Here's hoping you continue to find your community and that you view me as a member of it!

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